Lifetime gift records help establish what was transferred, when and on what terms. HMRC guidance explains that different gift exemptions and rules may apply; a transfer should not be assumed tax-free simply because it went to family. [1]
Record the transaction at the time Note the donor, recipient, date, asset and value. Keep bank evidence or transfer documents and explain whether the payment was a gift, loan or reimbursement. For non-cash assets, retain the basis of valuation.
If relying on an exemption connected to income, retain the income and expenditure evidence needed to assess it. A label on a spreadsheet does not establish that the conditions are met.
Keep retained benefits and earlier gifts visible Record any continuing use of the asset, such as living in a transferred property, and any payments made for that use. Earlier gifts may remain relevant to the tax analysis; do not discard records merely because an anniversary has passed.
Coordinate the history with Inheritance Tax advice. Where an attorney proposes the gift, check their separate authority first. Tax exemptions do not expand an attorney's gifting powers or settle care-funding consequences.
Establish what changed hands and whose money was used Create an entry when the transfer occurs, linking it to the bank transaction, asset transfer or other supporting evidence. Identify the donor and recipient precisely, especially where money comes from a joint account or is paid directly to a third party for someone's benefit. Explain what the payment was intended to achieve. A contribution towards a house deposit may have been a gift, a loan or an acquisition of an interest; the label used in a later family conversation cannot reliably answer that question by itself.
HMRC's guidance asks for records of the recipient, value and date, and recognises that a gift can include value given away through a sale below market value. Where the transfer is not cash, retain the basis on which the value was established and any advice obtained. Keep the documents showing completion rather than only an intention to make a gift. If ownership changes in stages, identify each event separately so an adviser can assess the relevant transactions without having to reconstruct them from an annual total. [1]
Support an exemption claim with the underlying facts Use an exemption column as a record of the advice or analysis, not as proof that the tax conditions have been met. Note who advised, when and what information they considered. If an allowance depends on the tax year or other gifts, keep enough history to check its use across all recipients. A household may make transfers through several accounts, so a schedule covering only the most visible account can give a misleading picture. Reconcile the entries with available statements before relying on an unused allowance figure.
For a proposed claim involving normal expenditure out of income, retain evidence of income, ordinary living costs and the pattern of payments. Ask the adviser what counts as relevant income and which records are needed in your circumstances. Do not infer eligibility simply because the payment was made monthly or because the account balance remained positive. Keep changes in circumstances visible, such as retirement, a major expense or a different source of funds. The evidence should allow someone to examine the claim later without guessing how the donor supported their own living costs.
Keep continuing enjoyment and later changes in view Record whether the donor continues to occupy, use or otherwise benefit from an asset after transfer. Include agreements and payments connected with that use, and obtain advice before assuming that a passage of time removes the asset from consideration. HMRC specifically addresses gifts with reservation of benefit. A transfer of title does not by itself settle the tax result where the donor's practical enjoyment continues. Preserve the factual history even if the arrangement later changes, because the dates and nature of those changes may matter to the analysis. [1]
If a family loan is later forgiven, or an earlier arrangement is altered, document the new event rather than silently changing the original entry to “gift”. Keep the original agreement, the later instruction and evidence of the authority to make the change. Where an attorney is involved, obtain advice on their powers before any transfer or release. The existence of a tax exemption does not grant legal authority to give away another person's property. Treat any care funding or benefit question as a separate issue requiring its own consideration.
Leave records that the estate administrator can interpret Keep the schedule with a clear explanation of its fields, supporting document references and review date. Identify unresolved entries, missing statements and any figures estimated from memory. If relatives disagree about whether money was repayable, preserve their accounts and the available evidence without rewriting the history to favour one side. Give the adviser the uncertainty explicitly. A useful record allows the estate administrator to ask focused questions and seek advice, rather than mistake a polished spreadsheet for a verified statement of legal and tax treatment.
Review the schedule alongside your wider estate planning after significant transfers. Ask how long relevant evidence should be retained, particularly where trusts, retained benefits or earlier transactions may affect the position. Avoid discarding papers solely because a familiar anniversary has passed. Store identity and financial material securely, while telling the future administrator where it can be located. The aim is a reliable transaction history that supports later decisions, not a promise that every recorded gift is exempt or that a single rule resolves all possible consequences.
Frequently asked questions
Should a payment from a joint account be recorded as two equal gifts automatically?
Do not assume that allocation. Record the source and circumstances so the adviser can establish whose transfer occurred and how it should be analysed.
Does writing an exemption beside a gift establish that it applies?
No. Keep the supporting facts and advice, including other relevant gifts and the conditions that need to be satisfied for the proposed exemption.
What evidence helps with regular gifts said to come from income?
Retain income records, usual expenditure, payment history and changes in circumstances so an adviser can assess the relevant conditions rather than infer them.
How should a later decision to forgive a family loan be recorded?
Preserve the original loan record and document the later release separately, with its date, terms, supporting evidence and the authority for making it.
Can old gift papers be destroyed when seven years have passed?
Ask before discarding them. Trust transactions, retained benefits and other features may make earlier evidence relevant beyond a simple anniversary calculation.
Official sources
Sources checked: 10 September 2026. Check the linked guidance for subsequent changes.
General information only. The appropriate action depends on your circumstances and the applicable jurisdiction.
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